I'm the kinkiest guy in Santa Cruz, so it may be dangerous for us to hang out. I'd inspire you dress lolita style and run around talking like anime characters. The whole formalizing everything with wild sex parties is more the American way, and it is kind of boring, to be honest. The Japanese way is more of a surprise method, which I actually like much more because it's much more exciting when it's unexpected.
Recommended: Power Exchange in SF, South Bay Spot in SJ, Esalen in Big Sur, and Citadel in SF.
Her: What's Japanese kink like?
Him: Mostly public exhibitionism. Some just go out and boldly bare it all in public. Most do it very discretely, typically a short skirt, no panties, in a bar or dance club. They like to tease guys in hot springs and hot tubs. Basically it is exhibitionism and a lot of flashing in public places. The unexpected is what makes it exciting for them. It's much more fun than dungeons and S&M. You'd need an ID to get into clubs to do that, but the hot tub places and beaches are possible. I'd avoid 18 and over places because there are too many young guys there and they just get all loud and obnoxious and try to take pictures. You want to target older guys who will silently admire you.
I'd like to hold your chin and gently run my tongue along your lips and kiss you in the moonlight after dinner some night.
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